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Do Rich People Really Have Rough Sex?
The popularity of the Fifty Shades of Grey series, not to mention a plethora of other erotic e-book titles, has conjured images of obscene, dangerous and misogynistic sex when we think of “millionaire romance.” But is this the truth? Are all millionaires really like Mister Grey and do they want to tie you up and start spanking?
Are All Millionaires Really That Horny?
The truth is, that book and film was an exaggeration of a lifestyle known as BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Submission, Masochism). Of course not every millionaire is into this, and frankly, the idea of a boss getting that intensely involved with his subordinate is a bit of a far-fetched scenario. Furthermore, millionaires are downright paranoid about protecting their wealth and reputation, so it’s doubtful they would take such an absurd risk as depicted in the storyline.
Granted, there are many individuals who enjoy sexually provocative activities, including the use of restraints, role playing and other toys. However, in the BDSM community, there are strict laws about treating each other with respect and as equals, and only in the “scene” does dominance and submission come into play.
Now it’s not really feasible to say, that no millionaire enjoys kinky sex. Of course, many do…but then again, people of all backgrounds, incomes and cultures enjoy pushing the envelope, don’t they? It’s perfectly natural to be curious about sex games and wild fantasies and this is actually evidence of a healthy libido. And that brings us to an important question…
What Does a Millionaire Expect From You Sexually?
How should you act when a man who you clearly want shows interest in you? This is a tricky one because you want to show him that you’re not a prude (because no one really wants a prude) but that you’re not too easy to get into bed. Rich men tend to lose interest in women that offer sex on the first date. Rich women (or wealthy older women which called sugar momma or cougars on cougar dating websites) may also become bored at men who don’t offer any creative or intellectual challenge but just want a friends with benefits relationship.
So how can you walk the line and give the millionaire exactly what he or she wants? First off, learn to listen to the person and get their views on sex. Trust us, it won’t take long for them to discuss it, as sex is a topic in dating that comes up quite a bit. Don’t take the LEAD in bringing it up, but be flexible and ask questions when they reveal what they like or what past experiences have included.
Some millionaires are simply attracted to body type thin or BBW and may just prefer a black lover, or Latino or Asian singles as is their own natural preference. This is becoming increasingly common as men may be attracted to a culture more so than the individual. Body shape and style of grooming may also be a specific preference.
Don’t assume that millionaires always want a dominant role in sex. Sometimes you will meet a millionaire who wants to be the submissive partner and have you take the lead in exploring new ideas and games. But if he is a dominant personality and knows what he wants, you will figure this out quickly. Be adaptable and intrigued at his descriptions…
But ALWAYS keep your self-respect and do not let him cross any boundaries that make you uncomfortable. Having a spine and standing up for yourself will impress him. Because at the end of the day he doesn’t want a prostitute that does everything he says. He wants an equal partner, someone who can challenge him and satisfy him meeting on common ground.
Be safe and be persistent and you can land a millionaire catch!